The Lies of Hookup Culture
Men Are Hurt by Hookup Culture too
Hookup Culture
Hook up culture is alive and well, but definitely NOT what all the Red Pillers make it out to be.
While women’s stats have gone up by 1% it is still 50% less than men.
Hook-up regret
A number of studies have looked at regret with respect to hookups and have documented the negative feelings men and women may feel after casual sex. In a large Web-based study of 1,468 undergraduate students, participants reported a variety of consequences: 27.1 percent felt embarrassed, 24.7 percent reported emotional difficulties, 20.8 percent experienced loss of respect, and 10 percent reported difficulties with a steady partner (Lewis et al., 2011). In another recent study conducted on a sample of 200 undergraduate students in Canada, 78 percent of women and 72 percent of men who had uncommitted sex (including vaginal, anal, and/or oral sex) reported a history of experiencing regret following such an encounter. >Article
Only Fans Ugghhhh (Girls PLEASE DON”T!!!!!!)
THE PROBLEMS WITH PROMISCUOUS MEN
COMMENTS: From a Video That Articulated Very Well The Problems With Promiscuous Men
“Guys who don’t know how to control themselves are liabilities” @julzluvzdollz2
I can tell you I’ve slept with 250+ women and it is nothing I would want for my young son. I also believe that like women who have trouble pair bonding with less than 20 partners, at some point your ability to pair bond starts to fade away, even if this doesn’t begin until 70, 100, 150. My current girlfriend sobbed to me one night, “I think you’ve been with A LOT of women!” I promise, that’s nothing you ever want to witness. @anamericanman
Sleeping around is not healthy for either gender. I learned this the hard way, through personal experience. rationalmale62653
“External things can’t fix internal issues.” If you need to get with a lot of women to feel like a “man” or just feel more confident you have an underlying issue that will not be fixed by sleeping around with women. You will continue going in circle until you realize it and act accordingly. @Vs-ci8sx2 years ago (edited)
My long-term boyfriend used to have this lifestyle for a long time before we started dating . I just wish he had never told me. I’m not sure how he feels about it, probably he doesn’t regret it – but I’m not sure what to do and how to deal with this information. I know he chose to be with me when he could have been with any other of these many many women, but still it is kind of hurtful. It’s just caused me to be more insecure about it all. I feel as if no matter what I do sexually or how I improve myself visually , I will never be able to reach the level of some of these women. I just really want to be the most beautiful and special , also when it comes to sex but I feel like I can’t keep up. He has probably already done anything anyway with some other woman who did it better while for me a lot of the things we do are new and exciting, valuable. This is a big insecurity for me. Does anyone know how to deal with these thoughts ?
In the worst cases, at least in my case, and what I think is the worst thing about these facts, guys who get into picking up and fooling around because of a horrible experience with a committed relationship usually develop these hateful feelings and it destroys their mental health. I was cheated on by my wife, with my best friend, over money. When the divorce was being filed, I started engaging in these pick up artist behaviors, and sleeping around, simply because I wanted to prove to myself that I wasn’t unattractive, and that I could attract other women if I wanted to. As the numbers piled up from doing the same kinds of charades, and playing the same lines, it became apparent that a majority of women can be coerced into sex with bullshit facades, and that it had little to nothing to do with me. As is obvious, this was highly damaging to my mental health, as I had tried to use sexual promiscuity to assure myself of worth, and then I had proved to myself that it wasn’t worth anything at all. It took loads of therapy to finally convince myself that copious amounts of sex will never fill my need to be wanted, and I highly recommend avoiding this at all costs if you are ever thinking about having revenge sex.@Buster_Scruggs
This Is The True Cost Of Sleeping Around
Aba and Adam22 Discuss How Sleeping With Tons of Women is Overrated (LOTS OF CURSING!)