Young Men HELPS
(Start with the easiest, and continue. See how many you can do in one day)
God First! (This is the most important principle and if you do this not regret…? Here’s some simple ways of putting God first.
What the Bible says about young men
1 John 2:14b “I have written to you, young men,Because you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, And you have overcome the wicked one.”
Young Men’s Godly Boot Camp
>Pray : A simple Prayer –God, help! (That’s it a prayer)
>Sermon of Hope For Young Men
>Join a church (A Calvary Chapel, Bible based, lots of man)
>Make your bed
>Get out of your bedroom unless its to sleep
>Put down your phone, use computer or laptop for email
>Overcoming Failure
>FAST from social media (this one thing will increase your mental health)
>Go do something for someone else
>Get a job, out of the house, (I would recommend, waiter (you have to talk to people, construction (you need to be physical)
>Join a gym, Ju Jitsu etc,
>Connect with a cousin, friend someone (start or connect to make a friend group)
>Write a journal, get your negative emotions out. Men have them they had them and stuff them.
10 Small Things You Should Do Every Day
If You Are In A Rut and Haven’t Worked, Some Suggestions!
>Get a job as a waiter-at first they are gong to stink. They haven’t talked to people in 3 years. Their first night they only made $10 in tips. That stinks, how can I get more tips? They learn how to read people, how to approach people, if they smile more, how often is enough, how much is to much, which is annoying. They have a goal. Make a $100 in tips a night. They are focused in a real measurable way.
Just as working out, how many push up? How many pull ups? How long can they run?
This job will give young men confidence with the approaching a young lady for a date. They know how to read a person, when to approach. How to be engaged without being creepy.
They hav watched other men crash and burn, or do really well. They’ll learn: is the couple making eye contact, is the lady leaning in, is she interested in what he is saying, or in how much he is spending.
Just work the waiter job (unless you find a really profitable place, its always good to get out amongst people, also get a side gig: building something online for real. learn finances first: to understand $, then try a bunch of different things and see wha works for you. ADD QR CODE TO SIDE GIGS)
HEALTH! -When you feel better You Do Better
>Acne-Your diet is making you break out! You can go on keto or take a allergy test. If you are allergic to certain foods you will break out. (video)
>Eat Better (Increase testosterone)
>Make your bed
>Get out of your bedroom (and basement if your gaming)
>Dress better-Go to a men’s store and look at what are on the mannequins and buy exactly what is on it. Buy 2 dress outfits, 3 good jean outfits, 3 casual outfits, and 3 gym outfits. 3 pairs of shoes: 1 dress, 1 casual, 1 sneaker to start. Casual jacket, coat, gym jacket, gym bag >Dress Better Video
>Get a Haircut -Go to a cool barber shop ad ask for a contemporary look. (Search lastest trends and match your face and style type. It’s usually best to go with a picture, but hair grows back so if you don’t like it don’t worry)
>GO OUT to the Coffee shop -Work, research work, research money finances
>Stop being self centered -if you still live at home, do stuff around the house. You parents will honestly faint lol. Mow the grass, paint the door, change the slight bulbs. Look around your home and start learning how to fix stuff. It’s amazing what you can learn on YouTube
>Go to church -Bible teaching (if their not teaching from the Bible you might as well go to the gym. They only want your money. Search for a Calvary Chapel in your area (Join a church)
>Go to a gym
>Friends -be a friend to make a friend, reach out to people yo haven’t seen in a while. Make your own friend group. Everyone is in the same place as you are. Reach out to your brothers or cousins. Everyone is struggling to reconnect, make an effort..