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HAPPIER & Healthier

Married Couples are Happier & Healthier, they enjoy lifelong support and love <3

Wealthier

Married Couples are MUCH RICHER Then Singles. 86% of Millionaires are Married.

Sexier

Married Couples Have More Sex and more fulfilling sex, then Single People

How To Have A Happy Marriage

Create A Culture of Marriage -Where marriage is valued, where marriage is a definite life goal. Where marriage is affirmed and aspired to.

Go for Pre-Marital Counseling -Pre-marital counseling lowers your chances of divorce by almost 50%!

Have A Vision For Your Life & Marriage -For better or worse, in sickness & health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part. Your vision for your marriage is a life time commitment and you are both “ALL IN”, and will do whatever it takes to make it work!

Constantly challenge your self -to become a better person. Build your marriage muscles, which comprises of communication, consideration and commitment.

How To Commit

How to Communicate

How to Be Faithful

How To Share Chores

How to Share Finances

HOW TO HAVE A HAPPIER MARRIAGE
1. Two-thirds of the married adults say that trust is a key factor for a happy marriage.
2. 81% of married couples state openly discussing finances is crucial for marital happiness.
3. Those who marry between the ages of 28 and 32 are the least likely to divorce.
4. Educational compatibility plays a role in marriage happiness, with 71% of couples having similar education levels are more likely to be happy in their marriage.
5. 63% of happily married couples laugh together at least a few times a week.
6. Couples who assign household chores equally have higher levels of satisfaction, with 67% reporting being very happy in their marriage.
7. 76% of married couples believe that supporting their spouse’s goals and dreams is crucial to maintaining a happy marriage.
8. Couples who share similar religious beliefs report higher levels of happiness, with 44% saying faith has a significant impact on their marriage.
9. Married couples with children are less likely to divorce but face slightly fewer marital happiness levels than those without children, with a 3.6% decrease in happiness levels.

Resources
How To Improve Your Marriage
A MUST WATCH VIDEO FOR COUPLE TO LIVE A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE | #BILLYGRAHAM
Get Real About Marriage Jason & Jenny Mitchell
Tucker Carlson Shares What NOT to Do in Your Marriage
My Relationship went from Dead to Alive when I understood THIS…
Growing Together, Not Apart | What God Wants For You In Your Marriage
The Bible’s advice for your Marriage

“A good marriage is made up of two people who constantly think about how to make the other’s day a little bit better.” – my husband ~Roobz 

All marriage is really. A promise to put the other above yourself. As long as both people are upholding that promise, everyone’s needs & wants are met. ~Montel Hardin 

 Here are some ways in which you can maintain a happy marriage:

  1. Communicate openly and honestly: Couples should communicate their thoughts and feelings with each other in a respectful and honest manner. Active listening and empathizing with your partner are also crucial components of effective communication.
  2. Spend quality time together: It is important for couples to make time for each other and prioritize their relationship. Date nights, vacations, and shared hobbies are all great ways to strengthen the bond between spouses.
  3. Show appreciation and affection: Small gestures of appreciation and affection, such as saying “thank you” and “I love you,” can go a long way in making your partner feel valued and loved.
  4. Practice forgiveness: No relationship is perfect, and conflicts are bound to arise. It is important for couples to be able to forgive each other and work through their differences.
  5. Support each other’s goals and dreams: Supporting each other’s personal and professional aspirations can help couples feel fulfilled and connected.
  6. Work as a team: Marriage is a partnership, and couples should work together to tackle challenges and solve problems. Sharing responsibilities and making joint decisions can strengthen the relationship.
  7. Maintain intimacy: Physical intimacy is an important aspect of a happy marriage. Couples should make an effort to prioritize intimacy and connect with each other emotionally and physically. >Mixbook

How To Improve Your Marriage?

How To Communicate Better? This is the #1 reason for divorce, so this should be the #1 thing you work on in your marriage. Michael Foster

To celebrate 20 years of marriage, I offer you 20 short reflections I’ve learned along the way…
1 Marry for demonstrated potential which is to say catch them on their way up
2 Marry as young as reasonable so that you develop your tastes and habits as a couple
3 Children are infinitely better than pets… so don’t delay having them
4 Have frank discussions about sexual expectations with your spouse and have as much sex as you both can.
5 When arguing, stop and say, “Hey, I love you. We are on the same side. Let’s work this out together.”
6 Pray together everyday and share the things you’re learning from God’s Word
7 Take responsibility for your sins and failures by saying “I was wrong. There is no excuse. Please forgive me.”
8 Have a budget and have set times you can talk openly about finances
9 Make three or five year plans with one year benchmarks and follow it
10 Go to church… every Sunday… even when on vacation
11 Never have close opposite sex friends… friends of the couple is okay… but not as individuals
12 Never let your kids play you against each other even if you agree with them… work it with your spouse
behind close doors
13 Wives shouldn’t nag, husbands should follow through on promises they make
14 If you forgave them, never bring it up again in an argument
15 Don’t let her coddle the kids, don’t let him exasperate them
16 Don’t overload your life with activities but rather maintain margin so you can work from rest
17 sometimes, maybe even often, expressing the willingness to fix the problem is more important than figuring out who’s to blame.
18 In the long run, divorce is ALMOST always worse than a difficult marriage… so work on and fight for your marriage every single day.
19 Play the long game… often marriages get worse before they get better
20 Enjoy every moment you have together, because the years go by easily.
P.S. Psalm 127:1

Pessimism is Insane!

Pessimism is Insane!

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