I don’t know if there’s ever been a more confusing time to be a man. So many voices and so many choices, that sometimes its just easier to give up and play some more video games than try and navigate our current culture. Between radical feminism and radical red pillers (meminist), with no fathers in the home to get direction and instruction from a lot of young men are overwhelmed and are checking out.

There are many people mostly men in the manosphere who re hopeless, they have given up and are advising young men to give up also. Hopelessness leads to depression and higher suicide rates which is a huge concern.

Funny story I just finished listening to. Manosphere podcast and they were say that there’s only 2.5% of women are marriageable. After listening to this stuff you get depressed then my 22 year old daughter asked me to go to the mall with her and I spent that time looking around at each and every women we passed. We live in a place of 8 million people so it’s not small or rural, the 2nd largest mail in our area Saturday afternoon. I I didn’t see one woman with a tattoo, almost all were dressed fine, mostly modest, mostly in shape. They were walking with their parents, friends, sisters. What you listen to affects your thoughts. Go out and look for yourself. There are young woman out there that are normal. Totally normal. They are not all sleeping around and doing OF. These men on th epodcasts libe in a red pill bubble. They live in their own small world of similar thinking guys. Mostly in-married going to clubs and others places that have promiscuous girls. Are there more promiscuous girls than there used to be…? Yes. To their own messed up lives. Just like young men are overwhelmed with negative false narratives these women have been feed lies for years and they are destroying their lives. But not all or even most women are like that. I know o young women who haven’t been even asked out for 3 years. These are kind, beautiful, wonderful women and they have given up. The manosphere (Meminist) say “See that’s feminist for you.”, but these girls aren’t feminist. There are a whole bunch of tradional women who aren’t shown online, who are not click bait so they have been gaslite. They are essentially invisible to th media, podcasters and just about everyone else. They want to get married and have children, but the Meminists are telling young men that there are NO Traditional women left in America so young men have stopped looking. Or worse yet they are telling young men to go overseas where 8! Yes eight men have been killed in under two months. These passport bars listened to these red puller and are now dead. Why? because if you follow red pill advice you will end up making yourself a target. A target to gold diggers and other more serious crimes.

Young Men all Men are Struggling

• They have stopped working
• They stopped going to college
• They aren’t growing up
• They have stopped dating
• They have stopped having sex
• They are overweight & unhealthy
• They have no purpose 
• They have dropped out of society (self isolating)
• They are depressed
• Their alcohol and drug abuse are up
• Their suicide rate is increasing

But it is an opportunity to come to a place and find out what truly matters, focus on that and go forward. There has never been a time such as ours with such great divides and almost infinite possibilities. Young men need to take some time and honestly figure out just what is important to them.

The only group of men who are doing well are Married Men!
Why are married men doing well? Because it’s natural. It is a natural and good and godly desire to want to grow up, get married and have children, to create a family, build a home, build a legacy together with someone. It is a good and natural desire. That is why married men are doing really, really well.

Don’t Believe The Lies Most Men Want This! (video)

The 27 Benefits of Marriage

1. Married Men Have A Lifelong Loving relationship
2. Married Men Have Lifelong Friend & Companionship
3. Married Men are happier
4. Married Men are healthier
5. Married Men are richer
6. Married Men have more sex
7. Married Men leave a legacy
8. Married Men have a better lifestyle
9. Married Men become better people (more selfless and giving)
10. Married Men live longer
11. Married Men recovery faster from disease and surgery
12. Married Men have better mental health
13. Married Men give each other emotional support
14. Married Men have less depression
15. Married Men have less stress
16. Married Men become a team
17. Married Men drink less alcohol
18. Married Men sleep better
19. Married Men have a better sense of purpose 
20. Married Men build a life
21. Married Men pay less taxes
22. Married Men have better physical safety and security
23. Married Men have more prestige 
24. Married Men makes it easier to parent
25. Married Men have the ideal environment to raise children
26. Married Men have less STD’s
27. Men Want to be married (even after divorce men 86% of the time get remarried)

Why? Why are Married Men the Only Ones Doing Well?
The short answer is that God designed it to be good for men, so it is. Even if you do not believe in God marriage is still good for men. Look at the list above, not one benefit is listed that is religious. When you do things God’s way even if you don’t believe or don’t know it is STILL beneficial for you to get married both men and women. It is natural for boys to grow and become teens, and after teens is adulthood. Adulthood is when we start providing for ourselves in every way; financially and physically. We are new learning skills like cooking, cleaning, doing our laundry, paying our own bills. You are figuring out car insurance etc. You feel productive and purposeful. You are growing up and doing that next step in life. You are being stretched in ways you couldn’t imagine. Adulting is hard. Learning to cope with adult responsibilities such as car payments and insurance, learning to making it to work every day even when you are not feeling well or you hate your job! Buy you have to go sos you can pay your bills. Yet at the same time you feel a sense of purpose, you are learning new things handing new responsibilities. Last year you didn’t even own a car and now you can afford to pay for your own car and your car insurance. Now you’re figuring out what you can do to be able to afford an apartment because you don’t really want to live with your parents anymore. You are growing up and even though it’s hard it feels good.

Becoming a man is when you get married! It is a right of passage which is why so many men are wondering just when do you become a man, and exactly what is a man?

Why’s 

• Godlessness (they don’t understand what a man is) Their role and responsibility 
• Fatherlessness (no one is addressing this enough -this is the root cause to many problems)
• Family unit
• Traditional masculinity is under attack 

Young Men are becoming more conservative because the current culture isn’t meeting their needs.

Meminist (red pill, manosphere), Men’s Rights, and Sexual Predators 

Understand this is the same ideology as women:

Feminist / Women’s Rights / Abused & Sexual Predators (completely confused)

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  If you have been in secluded in your home on your computer and checked out of life. Here are some tips!
  This is what I would tell my sons.
  Get Wisdom: From A Father to His Son (Proverbs written by King Solomon for his son)
  If you listen to Red Pillers like Andrew Tate, Rollo Tomassi, Fresh & Fit etc you will end up just like the young women who listened to feminist who lost years of there lives focused on the wrong things. Their priorities are wrong. Learn to trust what God’s plan is for you. His idea of manhood leads to the most fulfilling life. A godly married man with two children are the happiest people.
• Reverse Engineer what’s important to you. Exercise to help answer these questions:
  • Your in the hospital, on your death bed and you can feel your life ebbing out of you and you and look back on your life, what would you miss not doing, not having.
  • What are your Principles and Values? (These form your character)
  • Lie, cheat, steal, work ethic, godly, 
  • What is sex?
  • When should you have sex?
  • What is marriage?
  • Do you want to get married?
  • What kind of marriage do you want?
  • Do you want children?
  • How many?
• Get a job as a waiter-at first your tips will probably stink. You haven’t talked to people in 3 years. On your first night you only made $10 in tips. That stinks, how can I get more tips? You will learn how to read people, how to approach people, if you smile more, how often is enough, how much is to much, which is annoying. You have a goal. Make a $100 in tips a night. You will be focused in a real measurable way. They will know how to read a person, when to approach. Learn to serve others with a joyful spirit. Be kind, be giving, be generous hearted. Learn how to communicate and resolve issues. These last qualities are the most important and will bring the most joy and fulfillment in your life! Everyone should learn the value of a dollar and just how much work it takes to get. Doing hard things are good and necessary in becoming a healthy adult. Learning to appreciate what others do for you is huge! You will never tip poorly again after being a server. 
• This job will give young men confidence with the approaching a young lady for a date. They will know how to read a person, when to approach. How to be engaged without being creepy. They have watched other men crash and burn, or do really well. They’ll learn; is the couple making eye contact, is the lady leaning in, is she interested in what he is saying, or in how much he is spending.
• Just work the waiter job (unless you find a really profitable place, its always good to get out amongst people, also get a side gig: building something online for real. learn finances first: to understand $, then try a bunch of different things and see wha works for you. ADD QR CODE TO SIDE GIGS) 
• Exercise Just as working out, how many push up? How many pull ups? How long can they run? 
• Acne-Your diet is making you break out! You can go on keto or take a allergy test. If you are allergic to certain foods you will break out.
• Eat Better 
• Make your bed (Jordan Peterson) (You’ve accomplished something today!)
• Get out of your bedroom (and basement if your gaming)
• Dress Better -Go to a good men’s store and look at what are on the mannequins and buy exactly what is on it. Buy 2 dress outfits, 3 good jean outfits, 3 casual outfits, and 3 gym outfits. 3 pairs of shoes: 1 dress, 1 casual, 1 sneaker to start. Casual jacket, coat, gym jacket, gym bag. 
• Cool Haircut -Go to a cool barber shop and ask for a contemporary look. (Search lastest trends and match your face and style type. It’s usually best to go with a picture, but hair grows back so if you don’t like it don’t worry)
• Go to the Coffee shop -Work, research work, research money finances 
• Stop being self centered -if you still live at home, do stuff around the house. Your parents will honestly faint lol. Mow the grass, paint the door, change the light bulbs. Look around your home and start learning how to fix stuff. It’s amazing what you can learn on YouTube
• Go to church -Bible teaching (if their not teaching from the Bible you might as well go to the gym. They only want your money. Search for a Calvary Chapel in your area. FIND A CALVARY CHAPEL
  Calvary Chapels teach from and through the Bible, and they have more men and mens groups than other churches. It’s really the best place to start.
• Go to a gym 
• Friends -be a friend to make a friend, reach out to people you haven’t seen in a while. Make your own friend group. Everyone is in the same place as you are. Reach out to your brothers or cousins. Everyone is struggling to reconnect, make an effort.
• Write a journal Get your negative emotions out. Men have them they had them and stuff them. You have to get them out in a healthy way.

What Actually is a High Value Man
“High Value Men” Self Assigned -They call themselves “High Value Men”, self described, self assigned. Just like when they ask a girl to grade herself from 1-10, and a girl says she is a 10, when in fact she is a 4. A man will assign himself as “High Value Man” when he is not. These Red Pill men are being hypocritical in assigning certain men as high value when they are not.
They are players, make loads of money, have yachts and think that in some ways make them High Value, they are just players, preying on young women who are innocent and think a sail on a yacht or whatever is worth a girl giving up virginity and hopes of marriage. 

• Red Pill men never talk about love
• They use biblical words without biblical implementation. 
• Girls submit -But it is not girls, or girls friends who submit to men. It is WIVES submit to your husband. Submission is based on a marriage covenant, committed, monogamous reciprocal 
• Relationship. Girls friend DO NOT SUBMIT to their boyfriends. 

How it Really Works (From someone who is married to a High Value Man for 40 years)

• It is Wives submit to your Husbands because this pleases The Lord.
• Husbands LOVE your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it.
• If husbands love their wives in this way, then wives would have no problem submitting to their husbands.

Funny story lol- we became Christian after we were married around 5 years. Now we were definitely traditional in mind set. My husband worked, I stayed home with the children and made a home, but after we became Christian I would come across the bits on the Bible where it says wives submit to your husband and I would quickly flip over the page to the next chapter. 

The word “submit” is a trigger word. We have been so influenced by feminist terminology and talking points that although I wasn’t sure what submit meant, I knew I wasn’t going to do it or even bothered about what it meant. It wasn’t until I was a Christian about 3 years that I saw a women disrespect her husband in front of me, (we didn’t even do that as a non Christian couple) and the of course the next morning I’m reading my Bible and I come across “wives submit to your husbands.” That I finally stopped and mediated on it. I understood God more after 3 years of being a Christian, and I knew that how I was thinking about submission was not what God intended for submission. So I prayed! I said “God, I don’t get it. I don’t even like the thought of it, but I know You and Your heart towards women and How I’m thinking about it is not the way You mean it.” 

*** explain I was already doing it.

The difference in feminisms and red pill is this: in feminism there aren’t many women girls actually want to be like. It is spread by disinformation in education, news talking points, so its mainly the mind that is involved, but with the Red Pill they have Andrew Tate who most boys want to be like. he is very appealing to young men who had had weak feminism men paraded in front of and they don’t want to be like that. Fatherless young men want a masculine role model, and Andrew Tate came along at such a time where the media was pushing a very feminine version of maleness. 

Andrew Tate is the revolt against that viewpoint.

The problem is 75% of Andrews message is inspirational and should be followed by young men, until he gets to his vey warped ideas about relationship, marriage and women. 

I was talking to a 22 yo young lady and we were just chatting about TikTok and she said,

Oh yes they’re called “Andrew taters women haters”. So young men are taking his message about young women and hating on them. Andrew himself gives a very confusing message about women. 

Is Andrew Tate a sex trafficker? Andrew purposely targeted young innocent women asked them out on dates, became their boy friend had lots of sex with them then coerced them into sex work. I came to hear about Andrew Tate though his many inspiring videos and I didn’t even know who he was or what he thought or did, so when I heard this (he said it himself; no one misrepresented his words) I was honestly horrified, and it sickened me. 

Are those girls better off for having known Andrew -No, as a mother of three girls it breaks my heart to see how he has purposely influenced theses young women into sex work. (Add QR Code Video Clip)

If someone would have come up to those girls and say,” hey do if you answer there 3 questions right ad Ill give you10000 dollars they’re say yes! “

But if someone would have come up to them and say “Hey your pretty, you want to do some sex work (web cam sex) they would most likely have been horrified and honestly embarrassed and cried because someone thought that of them. they were pursuable. 

Andrews appealing and charismatic personality and his amazing use of words and charm has made him very good at persuading young women to do what he wants. He sold them a poisonous future) But according to Andrews own words -women who do such things as sex world as valueless, and he wouldn’t marry them. But he does make them. And spreads the very ? message about women but has not looked at himself through the mirror of God’s lens. Did Andrew Tate kidnap the girls and force them -no, but it was more like a frog in water where he lead them to a preordained end that he planned.

The question is would they have chosen this for themselves if they hadn’t met Andrew Tate -no most likely they would not have. 

They reason his grandmother had 70 sentient beings around her and live well and obviously loved well is because his grandfather married her! What he appreciates about her is what he is withholding from the women he (has-loves) in his life. (Add QR Code to video clip)

Red Pill says don’t get married because of the government etc-what a bunch of hooey! the government is all up in our business. So its just an excuse, and instead of fixing the problem if there is one they without what is best for themselves, their baby mommas and their own children. So their baby’s mommas are single mothers and with that comes all the statistics of children who are raised without their fathers in the home.

It is completely unrealistic to think that they can and will be good fathers and meet all of their children’s needs.

The government has totally messed in our lives but never in our marriage so what they are spreading is honestly a lot of self interested misinformation.

Candy Store Mentality -Being a Glutton 

You live in the candy store

And instead of picking a piece of candy and buying it and leaving 

You’re choosing to live in the candy store. 

A high value man walks into the candy store and chooses a piece of candy leaves the store and eats it. Even if he thinks darn it I wish I would have chosen the snickers instead he eats his candy bar and appreciates it.

A high value man walks into the candy store and chooses a piece of candy leaves the store and eats it. Even if he thinks darn it I wish I would have chosen the snickers instead he eats his candy bar and is happy 

RED PILL DOESN’T TURLY CARE ABOUT MEN! Prove me wrong!

We have the receipts (data) Men are happier, healthier, wealthier and live longer when they are married. But Red Pillers say screw around, don’t get serious, use women, find virginal innocent women, don’t marry them but just sleep with them. Then the women’s body count goes up and their like no ones ever going to marry you cause you’ve slept around. They are pushing a narrative that is destructive to men! WHY? Money, power, success, click bait for their YouTube channel. Blame culture! Just like new feminism blames all men for their problems, Meninism (Red Pill) blames women for their problems. And instead of helping men find a wonderful wife, they are actively destroying men, women, family and society and they are just as culpable as the new wave feminist who say men are the root of all the evils that have happened to women.

Value of A Man

God made man. God made man in His image, in His likeness. Man is created with intrinsic value. That is not based on his height, weigh, bank account or just how much he can bench press. GOD MADE YOU for a unique purpose. There are some who don’t get time to worry about being a man. They’re just a man. Before all this crazy narrative about the sexes came into our culture we just were and tried to be the best of who God created us to be. The current narrative brings in insane confusion that isn’t necessary. Just be you, and the best version of who God created you to be.

1-Man is made in the image and likeness of God
2-Man was created to have dominion over the Earth and all that is in it.
3-God made marriage and made us to be monogamous 
4-Man is supposed to be fruitful and multiply
5-We are supposed to fill the Earth -that is our purpose!
6-And God said everything He made was good!

Genesis 1:26 “Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” (27) So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. (28) Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”….(31)Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good. So the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

Genesis 2:7 “And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living being.“

When God made man, It was the FIRST time God said something wasn’t good. God said, “It is not good that man should dwell alone.” God saw that there was no comparable companion for him, so God put Adam (the first man) into a deep sleep and took out a part of him and made Eve (the first woman). Man Is missing a something so he is always on the search for that part which is found in woman.  

We are created with certain attributes:

• The lust of the flesh, The lust of the eyes, And the pride of life (Our fallen nature)
• This describes a man, But along with that 
• God created us with a conscience and boundaries in how to live
• So when people speak of evolutionary attributes they are speaking of micro evolution not macro evolution. 
• God created us with eyes to see beauty
• And appetite to fulfill our bodily needs
• And the pride of life in order to survive 
• But He created us also with an emptiness in our hearts and souls that only He can fill. 
• Without God there is purposelessness, God ultimately gives our lives meaning and purpose.
• In the beginning God, and in the end God, ultimately it is our choice to receive Him or not. 
• If we don’t fill ourselves with godly things then our 
• Eyes will be filled with lust
• Our appetites get gluttonous
• And our pride of life gets selfish and destroys others
• This is going to be a stretch for you, but stretch reach to the top shelf! The best stuff is up at the top shelf, so that way not everyone can get to it. It’s precious, fragile of high value. So practice stretching it will be worth it, I promise you! 
• How to treat a woman

1 Corinthians 7:36 “But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be, let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry.”

The True Value of A Man

• God designed marriage for us, for men,
• Created from baby, toddler, elementary, pre-teen, teen, adult.
• We are supposed to grow up, God made women for men.
• It’s a natural progression of growth as men.
• We grow, go to school, go to college, get married have children. 
• And all the fun stuff in between, love, joy, adventures, sorrows.
• We were created to marry. It is God’s design for us that is why all the stats go in God’s designed favor. When we do thing God’s ways we are happier and the results are always better.
• Men who are married earn more because they need the pressure of having to provide for their families to reach higher and work harder. It’s a good and godly goal. They thrive in this goal of providing for their families. They have a God given desire to provide for their families. Its innate In them. God created Adam to work in the garden and after the fall Mans punishment is to til the ground by the sweat of his brow.
• Anything that puts enmity between men and women is a tool in satans hand.
• God made and man from the dust of the Earth and breath into him.
• He was a special creation, the only created being that God breathed in.
• The ONLY ONE! Man is a special creation made with intrinsic worth! 
• Some people say you aren’t nothing unless you make money and have 6 pack abs.
• Married men make more then single men because they want to reach for something. The pressure to provide brings out the best in them. The competition, the good and godly pressure to provide for your family to a good and godly pressure that men need, and thrive in. They are HAPPY to do it, they are able to do it.

A True High Value Man! 
Meets a 18 yo girl, puts a ring on her, marries her a year later, puts the house in her name, the cars in her name and get life insurance for himself first so that way if anything should happen to him his wife and children are provided for. Has 5 children with her, lots of grand babies, and happily married 40 years later! Together they BUILT something together. 

A true high value man marries and makes a girlfriend, wife, homeowner, mother, grandmother, business owner, involved in ministry (giving back to community) Thats a high value man!
A truly high value man makes value- creates a wife, gives a future, does what is best for the woman. He give a future of 

A Nice Guy vs A Good Man
There’s a difference between being nice and being good.
Being nice is people pleasing
Being good is God pleasing.
God is easier to please lol!

It’s nice to be nice, you smile easier, learn people cues, help the lady cross the street, open doors, tip well, but if your doing all that to get affirmation from people you will end up disappointed. However if you do that because it pleases God, God is pleased that you are treating people the way that you would like to be treated.

This is especially necessary in the dating world. Treat the women you are on a date with the way you would like to be treated. If they aren’t reciprocating that’s fine you just learned this is a women I will not be going on another date with. Learn early and learn quickly don’t waste time on people who don’t treat other people kindly. Watch what they say through there actions even more then their words. Believe what that shows you. Looks wear off, but true beauty shines from within and only gets better with age.

Don’t change who you are because some people will not appreciate you. Stay true to God and yourself and you will eventually find someone who truly does appreciate you for who God made you to be.

If you are dating with intention you want to see as quickly as possible. If here not treating you kind on a first date who do you think they will be treating you in a few years.

My husband told me he knew what kind of person I was (kind, thoughtful) when on our first date he opened the car door for me, and as he walked to open his door and get into the car, I ad already opened his door for him from the inside. It wasn’t a planned test, but he just knew through those little encounters that I treated him with thoughtfulness that if we were together long term that that is the kind of person I am. To make his life easier. Reciprocal thoughtfulness. He opened my door, I opened his. He helped me, I helped him. I thought of him, he thought of me. This is the kind of relationship you want, and if its not there from the beginning this is not something that will grow later on. If they wont even make the effort in the beginning when they should be showing you the best of themselves -then I really won’t be there later. 

***PLEASING GOD -ADD

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Not some player who thinks cause he has a fast car he’s all that cause he ain’t! Truly High Value man offers marriage and monogamy. It is not one sided both husband and wife give to each other. They both have something of value and worth to share and they are better together then they are apart. 

Difference Between 
Feminism, Women’s Rights & the Sexual Revolution

A self valued man (player, pimp) would saw a young girl at a club and have sex with her and introduced her to another of his friends (a women who friended her into) make her friendly with a sex worker. Slowly introduced her into a life of sex work. He made her into a sex worker. That what was what he had in mind for her. Not a wife, not a mother, not a grandmother. Not even a long term girl friend. 

He didn’t provide for her, SHE ended up provided for him. 
He didn’t look out for her and her future. He used HER for HIS future.
(Andrew Tate) QR CODE to video where he described what he himself has done and has not even said he regretted it.

He made his money off of sex trafficking pimping, his first million. So he built his success off of women. He had HIS FUTURE in mind not hers. He made her into something he himself said he doesn’t value and would never marry. QR CODE 

Redpill manosphere are making passport bros which re the contempt feminists (meminists) of our time. 

Passport Bros are Modern Men who are now ready for marriage. They have slept around. A lot! Gave women higher body counts they know they don’t want to marry them, no! They won’t marry a modern women even though they are a modern man. 

This has also become very dangerous – 8 men have been killed, yes KILLED overseas by being Passport Bros looking for women on a dating app. Got set up and murdered. I didn’t hear one, NOT one of these red pilled Manosphere Memeinist even apologize for their murderous advice. Men who do what Meminists say destroy their own future!

The problem even though at first they do not realize that they have a problem because all the red pill advisers don’t tell them about this problem. 

It is that they have become a modern man the counter part to the modern women and that traditional women which they seek to marry will not go on a date with them.

Why? 

Because they have become a modern man have slept around. They have had a lot of sexual partners. Experienced a lot of crazy stuff and traditional women don’t want to touch that with a ten foot pole. These modern men have not treated women the way they should be treated, with respect and value. They just used them for their own purposes, for their own sexual gratification. Meanwhile traditional women have waited for marriage or have been circumspect in their dating life and will not date a modern man, because they don’t believe that he could and would be monogamous after marriage. They don’t want to compete sexually with all the past women these men have had sex with. 

So a  traditional women will not date them. They don’t even know where to find traditional women because of their lifestyle they have have been living is modern one and they have not built a traditional culture of family, friends, church community so they don’t know any traditional women, they wouldn’t recognize a traditional woman-the traditional woman are actually hiding from these type of modern men. So these men have to resort to going over seas and take a guess about the type of woman she is. 

I know men who have married these women overseas and its honestly not pretty. They are just a wallet. It is a job to them. My heart hurts for these young men who have listened to these manosphere men (who are mostly married) and have wasted their years in trying to satisfy their sexual pleasures which is temporary and have missed out on building something real. A real relationship, real sexual satisfaction which is not based on performance but on relationship, trust, mutual values, etc. 

Modern Men/Passport Bros are looking for a “skill set” instead of the woman’s heart!
You can always learn skills, in fact we will always be learning. But a woman’s heart is something altogether different. is she kind, loving and compassionate? This has nothing to with nationality and everything to do with the kind of person she is. A passport bro marriage might be good for a season but long term the same things matter in marriage across the board in whatever kind of marriage you have.

Third Highest -Widowed Men So..the Bible is correct when it said, “It is not good that man should be alone.

So why is the culture telling men not to get married, or focusing on the small amount of serious consequences of divorce? 

If they were truly concerned about men they would:

1. Figure out what kind of man you want to be (one of character or comfort?)
2. Be helping men pick out amazing wives
3. Help men work out their marriage problems (over 36% of men regret getting divorced)
4. Change certain laws that are disproportionally against husbands/fathers 

What Red Pillers are not saying what truly needs to be said. They are not saying, “Men we need you! get up, get off of Porn hub, get a job, mow the lawn, work your job, work on making your future better,  add your value to your world. You are created for good work! Get up and fight! Fight for America, we have the America we fight for. Yes its hard, people are in power who do not have our best interests at heart, but God. At the end of your life do you want to look back and know you didn’t even try, that you didn’t even fight! That you allowed what is evil and didn’t even have a voice of dissent? Red Pill Culture spend 95% of the time blaming women for all their problems. 

This is where Red Pill goes wrong- they’re focusing on Modern women, how much your body count is, Instead they should be focusing on of are you working? Are you working Out? Are you healthy? Are you capable, hard working, faithful, strong in mind, body and spirit? Can you change your oil, change a tire? Are you reliable? Do you show up for work even if you hate your job? 

We are affected by what we allow into our minds to think about: (Men of Character control their thoughts)
Proverbs 4:23 Keep your heart with all diligence, For out of it spring the issues of life.
Romans 12:2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.
Ephesians 2:10 it says Men were created “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”

Men of Value Do Not:

• Men of value do not blame women or others for their circumstances
• Men of value do not use women for their own pleasure and sexual gratification 
• Men of value give and build up, not use and take apart (every time you use a women for sex you are taking a piece of her away. You are pulling her down, not putting her in the place where God would have her to be.)

A man has much more value than a paycheck. God created him with intrinsic value. So as a man instead of getting your value from your body count, net worth or your six pack abs, get your value from God and then everything else will fall into place.

What’s Best for Men!!!!

What is a my our culture is so bad.

Godlessness

Fatherlessness  (look up effects)

There are lots (find amount) of children without their fathers in their lives. Is a small amount the mothers are keeping them separated (we should work on that) but in most cases the men just don’t care. They don’t provide financially, emotionally or provide any kind of parental support. 

In the endless hours of Red Pill programming I have not heard one word about having these fathers step up. If you have a child and are not involved in their lives you are leaving a (lasting legacy of neglect and abandonment issues) that your child will have to work through. They will have to overcome your neglect. As a person who has never met my father I can tell you that your child most definitely will want you in their life. There is a hole in their heart which only you can fill. It honestly doesn’t matter how old they are, they need to hear I am sorry. They need you to man up and reach out in whatever way they will let you back into their lives. You can and will make a huge difference. Because fathers matter a lot.

Red pill actually says in their way that fatherhood doesn’t matter.

They are actually quite negative about having children and whose responsibility it is for the children. it is both mothers and fathers but I have never heard them hold father accountable for being absent in their children’s life they just complain about child support. 

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